St. Louis, Missouri is known as the “Gateway to the West” as it was from this city that many settlers and adventurers launched into a challenging yet exciting future filled with abundant opportunities for betterment and freedom in the American West.
Similarly, we, the men and women of the St. Louis chapter of Sexaholics Anonymous, have found the 12-step program and fellowship of Sexaholics Anonymous to be the Gateway to Freedom from the cruel tyrant of sexaholism and lust addiction and an entry into the abundant and fruitful land we call Recovery.


Each of us has been afflicted by a profound and utter powerlessness over one or more sexual behaviors that threatened to destroy our sense of worth, our relationships, our careers, and for some of us, even our very lives.  The disease of sexaholism is manifested in a variety of ways among our members. One has summarized it this way:
We became true addicts: sex with self, promiscuity, adultery, dependency relationships, and more fantasy. We got it through the eyes; we bought it, we sold it, we traded it, we gave it away.
But we have discovered a solution to our powerlessness and to our destructive choices! If you too have despaired of ever being free, we would love to share with you our experience, strength, and hope. Freedom and a supportive fellowship are within your reach. Come join us!


Please take some time to look around the site. If you identify with us and think you may share our problem, we’d like to share our solution with you. We have meetings every day, at various times and locations in St. Louis, MO, St. Charles, MO, Rolla, MO, and Caseyville, IL. Please contact our hotline at 314.995.2687 or and one of our volunteers will be in touch as quickly as possible.
A Member Works Step 6
A Member Works Step 6

Using the suggestions from page 100 of Sexaholics Anonymous book Step Into Action, one member works Step 6 on one of his character defects: A. Character Defect: Workaholism B. What is my life li…

What Are Your Drumsticks?
What Are Your Drumsticks?

I was going to the Baltimore SA Convention several years ago. When I fly to a SA Convention, I get a window seat, because I don’t want anybody to ask me the question, “Where are you going?” I don’t wa…

Progressive Victory: An alcoholic and a sexaholic walk into a bar…
Progressive Victory: An alcoholic and a sexaholic walk into a bar…

The AA Big Book and 12 & 12 have proven to be indispensable guides in my recovery journey. Though never addicted to a substance such as alcohol, I see my experience as a sex addict described on ev…